Femy gay or manly gay?

I'm not sure whether or not i should be more manly or stay femy? Any suggestions? Here's a description of me: thin, dark blonde hair, bluish-grey eyes, warm red lips, look like a girl more times than none and I have NO signs of muscles. So should I stay femy looking or try to work out and be a bit manlier? My personality is a bit girly but mostly straight acting, so should I make myself manlier to get hotter guys? All in all I'm still gay so any suggestions people?